
Awhile ago a friend from work told me that he was reading one of his fiance's books. The whole concept was about how men compartmentalize everything in their heads. And a woman's thought process is basically a bowl of spaghetti. For example, when you are having a conversation with a man he hits one squre at a time one topic at a time. So it throws him when a woman jumps from one subjet to the next as soon as she thinks about it. And without giving any warning the conversation can go in a completely different direction without even taking a breath. It said all of a woman's thoughts are overlapping and intertwined and one random thing can propell them into the next subjet. David often has a hardtime following one of my end of the day wrap ups because I don't give him ample warning that the subjet has being switched. Whatever I think I say and I prefer it that way. I must admit the longer we've been together the better he follows this crazy process it's just soo unnatural for him. But here's the question. Does this apply to anyone else? Am I just a babbler with no ryhme or reason and David is validated for not following me? Or do the men in your lives also have a hard time following your thought process?
Oh I have great news. (Thank goodness for paragraph breaks or you would completely understand how I can go from one thing to the next and not even care if I have a "smooth" transition.) Ashton slept 11 hours last night I woke up at 7am this morning in a panic I thought he was dead (I know, not funny but still...). It was one of the hardest things we've had to do but we've got him back on a sleeping schedule and it is a GLORIOUS thing.

4 comments:
I am a spaghetti head for sure. Why can't Chris just get his thinking hat on and figure it out. Oh well, men...what can I say? Chris was reading over my should and he now thinks he needs that game.
We definitely agree, Its now become a game of ours to see how long it takes Ben to figure out which subject I am talking about
:-) He's been a good sport.
And I also think the chore game is funny! What a way to relax!
yay! glad you found me - and yes, we do have about 87 friends in common :) your little boy is adorable!!
FIRST i love when Nicci sleeps rediculous hours! lol. And Second, NO you're NOT the only one! Seth always laughs when i transition too quickly for him to follow and that's when i know i've lost him and i have to do a little "review session" for him. LOL. A bowl of spaghetti...i will forever picture that when i talk...
i love your posts by the way! keep it UP!
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